Long trips
When taking children on long trips or holidays, it’s a good idea to plan ahead.
If you’re going by car, plan your travel so there are lots of stops along the way for your children to run around and explore. Plan to take breaks at child-friendly places, such as parks and playgrounds. If you make your lunch stops a little before the usual lunch rush hour, you’ll get better service and it won’t take quite so long. You might not get there as fast, but getting there is part of the holiday!
When having a toilet break, go into the toilets with your children. Make sure they wash their hands. You might like to pack some hand sanitiser, because it’s a good alternative for handwashing if soap and water aren’t available.
Try to arrive reasonably early when you’re staying in overnight accommodation along the way. It can also be helpful to make sure you have a good amount of time at overnight stops.
Holidays with young children are often better if they are fairly simple. For example, staying in one place where there are lots of children’s activities might be easier and more fun for the whole family than doing lots of sightseeing.
What to take
Apart from the items you’d normally take on a trip, it can be helpful to take extra things just for the car trip. Here are some ideas:
Preschoolers and older children
Bus or train travel
Travelling on a bus or train can be very exciting for young children. But long trips can pose similar challenges to long car trips, because children can get bored with the scenery and sick of being stuck in a confined space.
Here are some suggestions for keeping children entertained on bus or train trips:
Air travel
There’s no reason you can’t take a baby on a plane, but very young babies tend to do better if they’ve had a few weeks to get settled into the world before travelling. It can also be healthier for your baby if you can wait a few months before flying. Germs are easily circulated in aircraft cabins, and very young babies don’t have the same resistance to infections as older children and adults. This means they can get sick more easily.
Here are some other points to consider when flying with children:
Plane travel with a cold
Try to avoid if possible taking any child who has a cold on a plane trip. The fall in air pressure can cause pain and severe ear problems. If it’s unavoidable, see a doctor for advice before the trip.
If a child or adult in your family has had a recent cold, it can help to use decongestant nose sprays, drops or medicines 15-20 minutes before take-off and landing.
Seating
If you’re travelling with a baby, you can ask for a seat with a bassinette. Some airlines will let you to use infant restraints on the seats so check with the airline.
When travelling with an older child, the bulkhead seats give you more leg room – but because the arm rests have the tray attached, they don’t fold up. It might be more comfortable to travel in the normal seats with an older child. This way you can at least fold back the arm rest so she can sleep with her head on your lap. If the plane isn’t crowded, the airline staff might even give you an extra seat so your child can stretch out.
Airline staff
When travelling with your child alone, it can be a good idea, when booking your ticket, to ask the airline staff member if you can be provided with an assistant at every stop. This assistant will help you collect your luggage and make transfers to connecting flights.
When the airline staff ask at the start of your flight if you’ll need any help, tell them you’ll need a hand to heat bottles and/or solids, and that you might need help at mealtimes so you can eat.
Changing nappies
It can be a good idea to change your baby’s nappy just before you go on board. There is a small change area in some toilets for changing nappies on board. Ask the staff which toilets have change tables.
Toys
Pack a comfort or cuddle toy your child likes for the plane trip. You might also like to take some old favourite toys your child hasn’t seen for a while, and bring these out during the trip. Small toys – such as little dolls, cars, trucks and trains – are good for playing on the tray top. The airline baby/children’s pack is also useful because it’s something your child hasn’t seen before.
For babies, have a range of colourful toys with different shapes, textures and sounds on hand. The airline staff might help keep your baby distracted by taking him for a walk down the aisle every once in a while too.
Peekaboo games are also good – you might find that some of the passengers nearby will play this with your baby.
What to do during take-off and landing
If your baby can sleep during take-off and landing, it will be easier for you both. If not, try delaying a feed until those times – the sucking and swallowing action from breastfeeding or drinking from a bottle will help with any pressure build-up in your child’s ears. You might not be able to wait, so it can also help to have a small bottle to offer when taking off/coming down. Even if your baby takes only a small amount, it can be enough to help with ear discomfort.
For older children, offer a drink at take-off and landing. If your child is old enough, you could give her a soft lolly to suck and chew. Chewing gum can also help.
Travel sickness
Travel sickness is usually caused by the change of position and movement on the inner ear. Although it’s most likely on ships and boats, it can also happen in planes, buses and cars.
The symptoms of travel sickness can include:
Travel sickness can go on for up to three days if the person stays in the same movement (for example, on a boat). It usually gets better in four days as the body adjusts to the new situation. Car sickness usually stops a few minutes after stopping the car.
Some children are more prone to travel sickness than others.
What to do to avoid travel sickness